Since I’ve reached my 40s, I feel invisible. At work, at home and in general. Do you have any advice for me? You seem like you have it all, and definitely not invisible.
I think it’s down to attitude. Some days I want to be invisible – no makeup, and I don’t want to engage with anyone and I’m completley happy to be invisible, but those days are rare. People treat me differently based on the way I look and the way I engage. If I’m all made up and wearing something colourful, I feel different and act differently. I prefer to be dressed in some happy colours with some pink lippy. It makes everything seem better and people I meet feel my energy and interact in a more pleasing and positive way. Great question!